l live at home with my father. He has progressive dementia. His Dr recently told him he should not drive but he insists that conversation never happened and continues to drive. Last weekend he couldn't remember the directions to go pick up his girlfriend so I had to drive his car for him. His girlfriend is no help at all. She let's him drive despite what the Dr said. She is only dating him for an inheritance (gold digger). She has not tried to stop him from driving at all. I am on here to find out how I can deal with my Dad's escalating situation with a girlfriend that is only trying to get in the way. Isn't it also her job to ensure his well being? She leaves everything up to me then when my dad gets angry with me for telling him the truth i.e. not to drive, she will use this to her advantage in her attempts to try and ruin me and my dad's relationship.
Good luck!
I think it would be a benefit to us all if after we reach a certain age that we have to renew it much sooner, perhaps one year, maybe even six month increments.
It is looking like you may be looking at guardianship by yourself or the state coming soon.
As to the girlfriend? Nah. Not her job. And appears she may be busy trying to figure how to get his funds before it is too late.
Are there others in family? It is time for a family meeting if so. Who has medical POA and Financial POA? Anyone? Apparently the doctor shared this info with someone.
So sorry you are going through this. An uncooperative elder with dementia is an utter nightmare to deal with.
This is tough but what can you do? Sorry that I honestly don’t know what can be done. It’s heartbreaking to witness.
Best wishes to you and your dad. A lot of us have dealt with people who take advantage of others. It’s sickening.
Others will offer advice or opinions. Stick around.