Hello All,
My 82yo dad was hospitalized for a cellulitis on his leg. In the week he was in the hospital he's become unable to stand and do the few things he was still able to any longer. I am his 24/7 caregiver. His doctors agree that it would benefit him to stay in a skilled nursing facility for rehab to regain some strength. My family was opposed at first but we have since agreed it is necessary to make a safe return home. We looked at 4 places, found one we liked, but now what should I be aware of?
I plan on continuing taking care of him there, but ultimately I have to sleep at night. What should I watch for? What's a "red flag"? We could have opted for in home therapy but this is supposed to be better for him. Any comments?
Of course, it isn't like "home." So I made sure that I visited every other day at first. Then she got to know some of the other patients and really enjoyed interacting with them, so I visited less often. By the time I picked her up everybody knew her by first name! They even had great food and she loved choosing from the menu.
When she first arrived she did have a reaction to the pain meds she was given...she never takes that stuff...and it gave her hallucinations. Doctor pronounced it Alzheimers!! I told him to take her off the narc. meds and give her ES tylenol. Other than that, it was a good experience for her.
I think the more the staff at these facilities see visitors, the better care patients receive. However, this does not mean that you have to be there constantly. Let your Dad do the work he needs to do and give yourself a break.