I don't know what to do with this additional stress. Even though the accusations aren't true, it's so hard to deal with. I have hired caregivers 5 hours a day and mom lives in my house. She is 82, can't walk or do any of her own daily care. She has severe diabetes but I am an RN and can care for her. I feel very strongly about not putting her in a nursing home. No one else in the family helps with her care giving. I know I give her wonderful care and she is happy. I believe they should let her money be used by her, rather than saved for them. What can I do to stop this harassment.
you can file for harassment if both times, they found there was no elder abuse.. or you can just thumb your nose at them and tell them to do what they feel they need to do if theyre that concerned about the money more than theyre mother!