I hope that you find the support and understanding you need. I care for both my parents and I am at the point where I feel like I can't take it anymore. My 3 siblings promised to help, but the help has been far between and now non existant. I wish you success and hope. It is very difficult. Never thought I would be in this situation. Mom with dementia, a Dad that abused alchol my entire young life and sitll very disagreable. Ready to send them to the NS, but don't know if I can do it.