my dad has dementia. he is very forgetful and his short term memory is gone. I have taken the car keys away because his doctor has advised this... My dad is very angry at me... he says " You are killing me", by keeping him "locked" in the house.. My sister and I have both explained we will take him anywhere that he feels he needs to go... but, he wants to drive himself.. How do I handle this.. I don't want my father angry at me...
Jill
I am sorry to hear that you and your sister are having difficulty taking away the car keys and dealing with your dads dementia. Unfortunately you are not alone. This is a common issue with many loved ones that caregivers care for.
My 90-year-old grandfather just bought are car, and he should not be driving. After a few days he decided he didn't like the car and tried to return it. Let's just say he won't be driving much anymore since he doesn't like his new car.
Anyway that's my story. Our experts here at AgingCare.com wrote some articles on this topic to help caregivers like you.
I hope these help.
Is It Time to Take Away The Car Keys?
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/Is-It-Time-to-Take-Away-the-Keys-112306.htm
and
Taking the Keys: What To Do If Mom or Dad Won't Give Them Up
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/Taking-the-Keys-What-To-Do-If-Mom-or-Dad-Won-t-Give-Them-Up-112307.htm
Best of Luck :)
Karie H.
AgingCare.com Team
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