Need info on how to disable father's car.

We ended up having to put "The Club" on my motherinlaw's car. Disabling the car wasn't going to be an option for us because her car was needed to take her places... doctors... hairdresser etc.

You could also remove one of the plug wires so that it won't start.

That's a big concern for many. Find someone handy with cars or a neiborhood mechanic, explain the situation, and have them disable the vehicle. The easiest way is to remove the battery or to be sneaky, just remove one of the cables. Don't just unhook it, he may be able to fix that. You could also disable the starter.

If he complains, play dumb and fake a call to the garage.

Good luck

goingbonkers60,

I am sorry to say that you are not alone here. Many caregivers experience this difficult issue when caring for their elderly loved one. Our editors here at AgingCare.com wrote an article helping caregivers like you.

Taking the Keys: What To Do If Mom or Dad Won't Give Them Up
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/Taking-the-Keys-What-To-Do-If-Mom-or-Dad-Won-t-Give-Them-Up-112307.htm

Also, visit our Special Driving and Travel section for all your driving questions.

Driving & Travel
https://www.agingcare.com/Driving-Travel

Best of Luck,
Karie H.
AgingCare.com