Mine went surprisingly well. My mother has been desperate to see my house but she's unable to sit up or stand alone and I can't lift her into the truck plus there are steps to navigate so I decided the house should come to her. On Saturday I took a ton of pictures in and around the house and the back 40, along with the pets - one of each of the dogs and cats were formerly hers - and put them on a flash drive.
On Sunday I took a laptop computer and the flash drive to the NH to show her all the pictures, along with her favourite sandwich (she doesn't normally eat lunch) and she was delighted. A golden retriever service dog had visited earlier in the day and, on arriving, I ran into a black labrador service dog, took him to see her and he hopped up on her bed to be petted. We had a long chat and a lovely visit. I'd been so dreading it I'm still gobsmacked at how well it went.
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Nana.... sorry :(
Ours went very well also! Since Mother's Day was also Moms birthday we did a double party. Giant pizza's and beer at Abbys... both brothers and spouses in attendance, my girlfriend and two of her wonderful elderly gent's whom mom adores.... closed the place down, proceeded to the local pub and watched mom dance the night away. An awesome live band was playing...and since its a small town, small pub... it's as if mom was dancing with the band. Hehe... they (plus the entire pub occupants) sang her Happy Birthday. She may not know who we are, how to flush a toilet or remember where the toilet is for that matter....but she can dance the night away.
Now she wants to go every night. NOT HAPPENING!!
Sigh.... only spoiler was the distant brother's wife thinking that was somewhat inappropriate to have mom dance the night away ...