Pray, keep me in your thoughts, something please...I need to stay calm.

Oh and she blamed "someone" meaning me, of giving the lawyer a wrong number!!! Really? I carried the number thats been on the fridge all these years that all the neighbors and us have gotten through to her just fine!!!!

Thanks ba8alou- I get a caregivers help, he pays twice a week for 1hr each day sometimes a little more depending. She is suppose to say 3 hours each time but he sends her home. She cooks, light housework in his areas and suppose to be mainly companion. Any who, dad still tries to help but really cant.

Well, my grandpa surprised me and left my dad, myself and my kids the home we live in!!!! So I am beyond shock and joy!!! Of course the promised funds for school is still a battle as he took my Aunts word for it. Im still grateful though. Idk how Im going to get my kids stay in their school, but whatever I have to do Ill do it. I can have a roof over my kids and dads head and I cant thank my grandpa enough or repay him. But he wants my kids to be stable and figures its the best way to repay us, I kept thanking him and he said your happy, I said yes, he said ok, lets not discuss it, its settled now and I know you know you have to start keeping up bills , so get a job!!!! That get a job was also a great relief to hear from him!!!!
My cousins also got their money!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So again, I got my way with that!!!

The lawyer was going to call my Aunt when I left the room, and she is fuming saying she never got a call. Grandpa called her when we got home and he was upset how she was talking and acting, but yet, still says I should talk to her but I dont want to fight. Well, lawyer was ONLY going to call to get her to come in and sign a trustee paper to make sure the kids get it, but grandpa said no worry she will keep her promise!!! Now she wants the Lawyers number and wants to speak with him!!! Hmmm any guesses why?

Overall, I kept my peace, well, it was easy when my Aunt wasnt on the phone because all we do is fight, ha, and we have to stay in contact!! Grandpa and I were basically ok too!!!!

Thank you!!!!

Remind me, you're caring for your grandfather with no help and no payment and no promise of payment. Just tell them in the lawyer's office that this is your last day on the job and mean it.

Oh,, what happened to the rest of my family..grandpas kids/grandkids.(..shes "in charge" of that to?) getting put on it???? meant to add that.. I just cant think....