I was waylaid by head nurse at nh this am and in several hundred words that cant be proven , i was given a clear message . edna is competant enough to change mpoa legally , theyre tired of screwing with PIA and her belligerance , they want edna in their dementia ward because its more taylored to her sleep habits and needs and they want to see edna and i get in that little truck of mine and haul some a** . i could sense that this was coming from an entire management staff as opposed to one stray nurse . i will see my attorney first thing tomorrow morning and frankly i dont care what the process costs . i am totally flattered by their confidence in me and my attorney already knows me as an honest poa and experienced dementia caregiver . imo , there is no place for petty spite where the life and well being of an elder is concerned . nh ' s main peeves are pia refusing to even take a tour of or consider the dementia ward and how badly edna is being hurt by the curtailment of our truck rides . this isnt going to be pretty . pia will start shouting up the place and she'll either shut up the drama in front of her mother or theyll throw her out of the building . ive seen this coming for quite some time . i respect staff and relay ednas needs to them , pia argues with them based on nothing but her ( imo ) closed mind and retarded thought process .
trippy . slightly stressy . please wish me good luck on this .
in my mind still rings the words of APS . " were all linked "
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im good for this patient and they love her so that makes us allies ..
i plan to present it to edna as " signing this ( medical advocacy ) form will give her control of her own life back " . if we want to leave nh for outings we will be able to do so . only today she joked about sneaking out of there with me . she knows somebody is messing with us and im slowly getting her to understand that its solely her daughters doings . she told her daughter over a year ago that she still loves her but " me and bobby are gonna do whatever we want " . she WILL stand up to her daughter when shes backed into a corner .
i dont think pia even needs to know if her authority has become undermined . only if she catches us gone for a truck ride or suddenly finds her mother gellin in the dementia ward against her wishes . the dementia ward is set up more like a home as opposed to hallways , bright lights and sleeping rooms . they also accomodate a dementia patients knack for reversing their day / night patterns . nothing annoys me quicker than a dullard disputing the heartfelt recommendations of extremely skilled medical personnel . i offered to toss my sis out of the hospital for that kind of ignorance . " tossed " in a literal manner and from the third floor ..
pia ' s sons will threaten to squash me again . i think if id stomp my foot theyd both s*it down their legs , thats what makes them almost comical .
we are 4 wd . one of the funnest rides we ever took was in a white out blizzard . she loves that little truck and it was utter cruelty to have it yanked away from her .
i think i can win this battle with NH firmly at my back .
ive been sensing that this nurse had something complicated to discuss with me . normally they dont idly chit chat a lot but she has been trying to engage me for several days now .