Hi Everyone... My dad will be moving in with us in the next month or two. He is recovering from Guillaune Barrre syndrome and has lost the strength in his legs to stand and motor skills especially on his right arm.
He is currently in a skilled nursing facility doing rehab. I need to be ready with as much as I can. Any advice on best beds? Transportation? Renting vs. buying a wheelchair capable vehicle? Lift chairs....? Good idea? Hoyer lift? How long does it take to get equipment costs covered via medicare? Any and all suggestions would be deeply appreciated!
If you have a transit company in your county i agree with cwillie that you should make use of their services. Other than that if you don't have the spare financial resources to obtain a van and there is no public transport try contacting eldercare services to see if the have volunteers who can provide transportation. Other than that consider trying to lease a suitable vehicle for the outings only.
Unfortunately GBS is a progressive disease so apart from making the best use of remaining capabilities there will be little improvement and likely progression.
Sorry to be the bearer of bad news but you need to have an open conversation with Dad's Dr and insist on truthful answers about Dad's prognosis then you can make the best plans going forward. Concentrate on making Dad's life as enjoyable as possible at this time but don't forget to take care of yourself. Full time caregiving is an exhausting and demoralizing so plan on regular breaks. Consider very carefully whether it is the best plan to take your Dad into your home for an extended period and the effect it will have on your marriage, family, health and the care you are ale to provide. Have you considered the possibility of incontinence for example. I do understand your commitment to Dad as your other and the probability that you made promises that you plan to keep.
It is wonderful that you are prepared to look after your loved one but consider if it may lead to resentment.
I know your question was about obtaining transport for your disabled father but I was considering the whole picture so ignore it if you wish.
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Talk to the SW and his pt and ot about what you will need initially and what to expect going forward.