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Zipster Posted June 2018

Delayed grief. A year later and I'm sobbing.

What's up with this? Buried my mom and dads' ashes six weeks ago. I just miss them so much. Dad gone almost 8 years and mom 14 months. My heart hurts like they died yesterday. I know it is a process and this is part of it. Just had to vent. I know you loving folks here can relate.

SueC1957 Jun 2018
I'm not sure what your beliefs are but many faiths believe that we will be reunited with our loved ones again upon our death.

In my belief, we will meet in Heaven, be free from disease, free from pain and suffering and be happy for eternity.

I know we suffer with our loss here but we have the promise of togetherness again.

Remember, they don't want you to be sad. They are in a great place. Work out your grief, remember the good times and know you'll be together again.

Blessings to you.

smeshque Jun 2018
Zipster, my heart goes out to you. Will be praying for you.
I lost my Dad in Nov 2016. To this day, I still have overwhelming grief, triggered by different things.
I dread losing my Mom knowing the pain it causes. 
You are loved. God is a very present help in times of trouble.
So sorry you feel this. So sorry any of us feel it. But you feel just as much sadness, by how much you loved them, at least I believe that.
You are a good and loving daughter

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JoAnn29 Jun 2018
For some reason you held it back and then burying them brought it all back. Let it all out. Will feel better later.

SnoopyLove Jun 2018
Zipster, I'm so sorry. What a loving daughter you are. Thinking of you.

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