Please pray that things will work out okay. She has been there several times to visit. So at least she isn't a stranger there, well sort of. I am doing about 1/2 of the moving and my brother will be taking her dresser and a lamp stand over there on Saturday. I told my mom that this is the last place for her to move. Short of heaven,but I didn't say that.
My sil is still attacking me now by e-mail but I won't respond to her. My focus is on my mom only. Same with my brother. He is a school teacher and he has a lot of responsibilities with that.
Did have to order another hearing aid because she lost her right one somewhere. It would be great if we found it as we were moving. Then we would have two! Mom is going to be 89 in January.
Where she is now, they have helped her greatly in many ways. But Grand Brook will help her out even more.
I just wanted this post to be mostly of a positive nature. Just had to squeeze in a bit of negativity.
Thanks to everyone for all of your support in various ways.
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The room is finally cleared out and I ordered her recliner and it will get there on Monday. It's not a lift recliner but a power one that she can move the legs up easier and even it reclines. Got it with my discount of 55% from where I work. I tried it out and I like it but it will fit her better because she is shorter than I am.
She just attacks me because she doesn't like what I talk to her mom about. The sil makes it hard to talk to my brother. That is why my brother and I do only e-mail. I don't want to get him upset with her because I don't want to make his life any harder. When my mom dies, then the relationship will be completely over. Unless he wants to have one with my husband and myself. She just assumes way too much. I really didn't hurt my brother's feelings. It was stressful for both of us. Now that we know that she will be well taken care of, it will be less for us to worry about.
Keep a positive attitude the entire day and finish getting her settled in.
Even if you feel your blood boiling or find yourself in tears, keep positive. In a day or two you & she will be unpacking and cozying up the space.
The day you’ve worked so hard toward is here. Congratulations & kudos for your hard work & persistence in getting this done.
In what way is your SIL attacking you? Does your brother know what she is writing? He should certainly know about this.