Mom & me

Oh, Wylee, I am so sorry for your great loss. You pushed through your pain and escorted your mother on her final path. May sweet memories of your mother bring you peace.

Wylee, so sorry for your loss.
It is one of the most difficult things we go through in this life. I know.
I will keep you in my prayers.
God can heal all hurts, and give us strength and comfort.
Look to HIM for healing
Big Hug

My late MIL suffered a massive stroke several days after a surgical procedure and passed away on the same day 39 years later to when she lost her husband. She could hear us but couldn't really speak.

I am so deeply sorry for the loss of your mom. It is heartening to hear how you each said I love you before she passed.

It will forever change you but just try to keep thinking of the happy memories you had with her. Hugs!

Wylee, thank you for sharing these poignant last moments with your mother.   I think she had insights that guided her last days and moments, insights that show strength and recognition of life.   

Your life won't be the same without her, but it also won't be the same because of what I suspect you learned from this wise woman throughout your life.    Think of those aspects, of the life you shared, of what you learned from her, and focus on those benefits and insights.

Are you in contact with other Apaches or Native Americans in general?   If so, I think it might be helpful to continue your bonds with them throughout this tumultuous period.   They'll offer strength; they deal with life and death differently from whites, and are much more practical and realistic.

I do wish you peace as you travel this new journey.

Wylee,

It's so hard to lose someone you love so much. You are right: losing them changes you forever. Wishing you peace and comfort in your dear mom's memory.

“Grief never ends…but it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay. Grief is not a sign of weakness nor a lack of faith…it is the price of love.” – Author Unknown

How beautiful and so heartfelt, Wylee. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Hold tight to those special memories of your dear mother. Wishing you many special blessings. Hugs!

I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mother sounds like she was a remarkable woman. Be comforted by your good memories of her.

I’m sorry about the loss of your dear mother. Hugs!

Your life won’t be as it was before but I feel she would want you to be at peace.

It will get easier. Take time to mourn. She knew you loved her. She will live in your heart forever.