I posted here last week about my mom going into long term care home this week. It will be on hold for now...

I was to go there ahead of time to take care of the paperwork but was advised that things are changing and that I would have to do paperwork in the parking lot and when I taken mom there I would not be able to go in and would not be able to see her for at least 60 days! In my heart I could not do that to her or me. It would've terrible to take her from her own to this strange place and just leave her at the door. I told them that I would be refusing at this time. Luckily I will not have to start the process over. It will be on hold for now. Thank you to everyone that offered advice and loving thoughts....