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Anxietynacy Posted February 28, 2024

I just wanted to give you all a heart felt thank you, deep from my heart, for sharing all your stories.

I have been burnt out for sometime, on and off, probably more on than off. Trying to figure out how to enjoy my early retirement with my aging husband before it's to late to do so


 


I've made a big decision, I'm going to tell my mother and brothers that I need one week off a month, no matter what, any appointments and errands that week are going to be there problem, I will be in a better mood those 3 weeks on. And it doesn't matter if I am home doing absolutely nothing, other than phone calls I am not doing anything. That week is my week . I couldn't of made this decision with out you all.


 


Because of you guys now I know I can do this

strugglinson Feb 28, 2024
excellent! Do it and stand firm!
(Easy for me to say as I'm struggling to do even a secret day off and stick to preserving those rare days for myself and not giving up time in those days. but I'm working on it)
I like your plan! tell them the week off is sacred, and you just cannot be bothered during that week, and then you will do a great job in the other 3 weeks!

Then , you can adjust it later depending on how things go!

Anxietynacy Feb 28, 2024
I don't really mean nothing, I think I ment even if I do nothing, it's non of anyone's business. In other words my time. Thanks so much for the positive response!!!

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lealonnie1 Feb 28, 2024
Great idea! Doing nothing is rejuvenating for the spirit.

golden23 Feb 28, 2024
That's great. It's imperative that we look after ourselves. Do whatever is good for you!!!

Midkid58 Feb 28, 2024
YES!!!

Take that time and do nothing or something---let your brain and body heal.

Maybe this can segue into MORE time off and a larger support system for you!

NeedHelpWithMom Feb 28, 2024
Good for you for recognizing that you need proper rest.

Take care of yourself and enjoy your time off!

Fawnby Feb 28, 2024
Great! Keep us posted.

Madisoncuckoo7 Feb 28, 2024
I am cheering for you! Fantastic!

Yes, the shared stories here are invaluable!

LisaNJ Feb 28, 2024
Well done!!!

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