I don't know how much more of this i can take.. i am being a faithful daughter, assisting her as much as i can.. my mom is not liking the facility in which i had to switched to & she keeps calling me to have her moved to yet another one. im not from here, so i don't know of reputations by word of mouth, etc like i would back home.. she doesn't get along w the staff & doesn't like "how long" they take to come when she rings that damn button. I've posted before on how draining this all really is.. shes not giving herself enough time w PT and shes resisting anything they try to do to encourage her, she just called me NOW (again.. while im @ work).. calling me telling me to give up her cat & make arrangements bc shes never coming home... i cant take this & still work & take care of MYself.. thank u all for reading
She would call me every day ranting and raving until my nerves were so bad I blacked out doing 85 in my truck. It was momentary, no harm done, but it was a wake up call. I changed my phone number and made it unlisted - told her I didn't use it and got rid of it. I was always careful not to give her my address either or she'd have sent the cops round.
Do phone calls at work come through a switchboard or receptionist? If so, just have them tell her you're out or in a meeting or if you have caller ID just don't answer it. If you don't have caller ID maybe you can get it. I don't know what else to suggest.