I live in St Louis and my 86 year old mother in the late stages of Alzhiemers lives with me. I am looking for help with her personal hygiene. I have been helping her but she has become very defensive and gets very upset with me now. She seems to be okay with anyone else. I seem to be on her bad list. I have contacted some homecare workers but they want $20 an hour with a 4 hour minimum. We can't afford that. Does Medicare or Medicade handle anything like that? ......Thanks for your time and any info would be greatly appreciated............Phyllis