She was in an induced coma with a breathing tube. Today I have just brought her back to the farm after a week long visit. She was running me ragged. Talk about gratitude. Many of you know the year we have had. However, now it’s time to cut grass and take care of the farm. How do you set some boundaries when your husband wants to do everything for her and trust me she will let him.
If Lee wants to run himself ragged toting and fetching for Mom, is there really anything you can do? You can only be responsible for what you do. You can’t control Lee any more than you can control his father. Your only option is to send Mom to a facility and sell the farm and we all know that’s not going to happen. When Lee has had enough, hopefully he will say so. But until then, just let him go. Don’t take it upon yourself to try to fix this.