Every time we visit mom & I get frustrated & if she comments about my frustration, Richard (hubby)ALWAYS (& I mean Always)sides w/her!!!Where does that leave me? Shouldn't he be on MY side for a change??? I don't know what to do about that. If you think I have a temper - his is worse - no physical abuse nothing like that but if you suggest he stop going w/me on weekends, please don't he won't llike it - I have already asked him if he wants to stop Saturday visits (we only stay about 30 min or so)but he said "no, in for a penny, in for a pound" which is nice but he doesn't support ME!!!
Tell Richard how you feel and if he can't respect you then go see mother alone or tell him to stay in the car. If he has a problem with anything you do or say, he can do it in the privacy of your home.