Just to bring everyone up to date on what is going on, at the present time he is in transition. He stopped eating about a week ago and hospice has come in because he only has a few days or week to live. I chose to keep him home with me because I wanted to take care of him until the end, I draw my strength from God, after being married for 60 years I owe him that much this has been such a helpful website just reading what everyone had to say was so helpful. Thanks again to everyone