My father inlaw is a very evil man he is moody everyday of his life if we go out and come back in the middle of the night the next day. if I cook food he makes comments on how neat I need to be I decided that i wont give him food then he had a problem with take also. he want to tell us how to spend our money and when to fix our home. My child cant even bring friends home then he complains about it. We can only have selective people over which is off their liking we stay in our own place at the back, when he comes into my house I can see that he is inspecting it to see if its dirty and make rude comments. his wife and children have changed themselves to accommodate his behavior the sister and the brother always look angry they don't even notice it anymore because when he is around he is stressing them out. I am sick of this I think im just gonna move out once and limit my interaction with him. My fiancé now feels that he is in the middle of this and say he don't want to get involved so I feel I'm not getting any support from him . His father just waits until he leaves then he starts with me I cant even relax in my own place he keeps on calling it like you need to be on stand by for his calls the whole time, I have noticed that my fiancé have the same manners as the daddy and is not willing to change so I think im leaving it is unacceptable towards me and my child
One caution: The rights of the child must also be considered. With visitation, will the child be put right back in that environment, but without you there? Depending on visitation schedules ordered by the court, it could be a day, overnight, every other week, or longer summer vacations.
Nevertheless, don't stay stuck. Find a solution.
I think you are making the right decision. Why would you want to live with a man so tied to his parents that he won't/can't support you? Why would you live somewhere you can't be yourself and entertain your own friends? Why would you subject your child to this controlling behavior?
Sounds like this living arrangement has opened your eyes. Prepare to leave. And then leave!