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Send, cali said that to hdzana. So be sure and report her okay!

Edit: send I see that you edited your post to a laughing emoji. I think that we should all report the ugliness spewed just so she can get the job done.
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Yes report away! Hdzana slung the first insult so don’t get it twisted, she made a similar in Spanish first. I don’t care if my comment is removed, it got the job done ;)
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She’s clearly in crisis hense her behavior today and it’s a shame some are coming for me instead of trying to get hdzana the help she is crying out for, just saying.
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See hdzana, it will always be someone else that is responsible. Just ignore her.

Cali, don't pretend like you are trying to help her. Obviously she is struggling and yet you get up and ugly about her trying to find out how to get the help she came here for. Your attitude is offensive under the best of circumstances and then you go after someone that is obviously struggling, you really think that you don't deserve being called out.
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"People, people who need people, are the luckiest people in the world!"

Or not?........................
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Not sure why everyone’s got their panties in a bunch over what Cali said.
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So what has happened to hdzana?

I find it disturbing and discriminatory that anyone that defends themselves against a mean mouthed poster, no names required, seems to disappear from the forum. . How is the line drawn? What, when someone obviously doesn't speak English as a 1st language and cannot articulate well they get run off? This is not the first poster that has been run off by this treatment from the instigator.

I know that I am not the only one that finds this disturbing.

Maybe she works for ac and is paid to start problems with people that are obviously overwhelmed and drowning in their situations to run them off. I think that it is a shame that so many people have been run off because someone doesn't like their method of venting. No mercy or grace is extended to the people that need it the most.

Maybe no one should be referred to this site when they call their local counsel on aging for help. It doesn't live up to what it is advertised as.
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I am barely on here anymore because I just have gotten tired of all the ugliness and the she said- he said crap. Furthermore, God forbid if you should correct someone for giving out 'Wrong Information' or just having a different option from some people. Not only do you get hammer on the public forum but you could get slam with nasty pm's.

Some on this site act like their in middle school!

I was taught "if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all."

So, if you can't post nice and helpful comment then maybe you shouldn't post!!!

If you're one who is offended by this post then maybe you should stop and ask yourself why!!

Peace Out!!!
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I'd like to be able to see when the member joined, when I read their post.
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As per our policy, personal attacks are always removed, as they were last evening. Additionally, users who intend to disrupt the forum, or post duplicitously are removed from the forum. As with any public forum, personal opinions will vary. We ask that users respect the differences of opinion and ultimately interact with intent to help the original poster. 
No user account, other than the official AgingCare moderator account, is compensated for their posts or otherwise employed by AgingCare.
If you have additional questions please contact me directly rather than distracting from the intent of the forum.
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Elaine, exactly. What I saw was a poster named hdzana calling Cali a 'fu*king b*tch', that's what I saw. And her being told that there is no COST to getting answers here on the forum.
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That is not all there was. Just because you didn't see it doesn't mean it didn't happen.
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Aging Care, I have a problem with my reply after spending time on the thread and ready to push the reply button, all of a sudden my reply disappears and then I get frustrated. I usually do not rewrite it.
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"If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs & blaming it on you......."

If by Rudyard Kipling

Good poem, check it out.
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Ignoring the dust up here yesterday, I hope the case manager's note about burnout means she's moving it up the chain that these people really need some outside assistance. It's so difficult that the MIL is allowed to refuse outside assistance and drop the burden of care on family. It'll be hard the husband to admit the level of care is more than they can provide. Hopefully, the CM will realize this and help him get help without him feeling like he's failed his mom.
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Earlybird, same issue here. I can no longer post to many threads, people. My feelings are hurt.
Testing. See if this works....

I tried to post a new question 3 times. It bounced back as if I was logged out. But, I was logged in, I am sure.

It was about Father's Day, coming up this Sunday, June 21st. Anyone honoring their father?
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Cannot post?
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Earlybird,
Same issue here.
I can no longer post on the threads.
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