Mom whom is 80 and I 46, went for a loan, we first refianced with the bank who has our note for over 17 yrs, so the first prime lender did not want to lower the interest and they did it, after being told by her and I that the new obama law states lower rates, well, we did refinance successfully. Then she wanted to get a home equity line of credit, to fix up the house so me, my brother and I can live there with her, the home equity line is with a small lender and is for principle only. After she gave them all the paperwork..she had an argument on the phone with the lender, (I was not there when this happened). The bank called APS and I feel is retaliating against her for not doing the loan..They are trying to say when I spoke to them today that they are investigating the issue (what issue she did not want the loan after we both talked about it) I feel they are harassing her now..and she is getting so upset
The APS wants to interview her and myself. and they said that before it goes to the DA. What the hell is going on?
Is this a scam tactic from the bank? and retaliating for not closing on the loan?
When I hesitated, he explained that the Line of Credit was based on the value of the house, and had to be that large to receive the lower interest rate. He also explained the difference between a loan and a line of credit:
A loan would pay for something immediately and then be paid back in time.
A home equity loan is line of credit available when you need to use it, for a certain number of years.
In my case, I had a 25 year Home Equity Loan, which allowed me to use and pay back for 15 years, with the last 10 years set up for pay back only. It has been very useful for home repairs and other things. If the larger amount scares you, then set a limit for yourself on how much you will allow yourself to borrow at any one time. You may have a roof to replace, so you borrow and pay that off, and when another need arises, the funds are available at the same low rate to use again and again.
These loans do take discipline, but are useful.
Research the subject at your library so that you have some background into the subject, then go to a trusted banker and ask lots of questions. Perhaps you should check with the first bank to see what they offer.
Good luck and thanks for being such a loving daughter.
Maybe someone misinterpretted her "I don't want this loan!" as an indication that someone else (you?) were trying to force her into it ... ???
Whatever the case, now that APS has a report they have to investigate. It should be No Big Deal. Stay calm. Tell the the truth. No Problem.
It has been a bad month as my fathered died suddenly (divorced) and I was concerned over our properties and the aps upsetting my mother, she is sensitive