We have put her on an every 2 hour toileting schedule. Most of the time she doesn't even go. She becomes very agitated at times and will talk continually about when the next time is. I know that it is anxiety related but we can't seem to do anything to reduce the anxiety. If we let her go the bathroom unchecked she will wipe so much that she starts to bleed.
I know that she does have and increase agitation because my FIL is also living with us and is on hospice. He is declining fast and is on hospice. I don't like using and anti-anxiety medication too much either. Any advice is helpful.