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I really hope he signed a prenup.

They both need to go.

You're 100% in the right. Call a divorce attorney TODAY.
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I would tell him that you will call APS and have her dealt with by the state if he abandons her in your home.

He calls you cold-hearted and he is the one running from the situation he created? Yikes! Get yourself a a good divorce attorney or you may be paying him spousal support.
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You’re not wrong, you married a mama’s boy, and unfortunately those never change. In your shoes, I’d welcome them moving out and a divorce. This is no way to live. We have neighbors whose son, in his late 30’s, has schizophrenia. They are wonderful caregivers to him, but have undeniably sacrificed their social lives, alienated their other adult children, and messed up their own health in the process. If you don’t want this life, you’re not to blame
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Run, don't walk to the divorce attorney. You cannot fix this. I'm sorry for your MIL, but she is not your responsibility. Get them both out of YOUR house.
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