Are there any gov't (state or federal) programs that can help financially when a child needs to take of an aging parent that isn't "sick" ?

Thanks Scarlet - I was thinking the same thing. That's a good article.
Carol

jdurham, try this article, you may find some useful information on programs that will help you:
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/10-government-programs-caregivers-can-access-for-their-elderly-parents-120513.htm

Many times an adult child can become the paid caregiver. Check with your local Area Agency on Aging. take care, Jaleyn

Local Area Agency on Aging ??? WHO do I call ???? Is this a state or federal agency ??

try a visiting nurses association too - some of them have great programs with day care and home health aides AND if you can get your mother's doctor to write a prescription for a nurse service, insurance will cover it