My husband is experiencing extreme anger with his dementia, what can I do for this?

My mom has Depakote and Risperidol, this is a big big problem that not many of us are getting help with. Elderly with abusive tendencies....much more information needs to get out to public about this. Much much more!!!!!

Jacqueline Marcell, author of Elder Rage, had behavior problems with her father, and adjusting meds finally did help. Her book is actually very funny and she has a lot of good info on her site.

Yes, my dad has been prescribed the same medication. He was already given 3 other meds, for the same problem: Celexa, for depression; Depakote, for dementia/behavior management; then Ativan, for aggression. I was shocked to know they had him on those, + Seroquel. This seems extreme, especially for not working. He was so aggressive with his roommate, that the other backhanded him one day for a bathroom altercation, then barricaded himself in the adjoining room behind a curtain and some chairs. He was since moved out, and my dad's been solo in a double room for over a week, now.

Dad was started out on Aricept back in 2003. He was also taking Namenda. There were a lot of catastrophic reactions back a couple years ago, while dad was still in his own home, while taking those meds. They were both discontinued a few months ago. Sad when it comes to this!

Sorry to hear you have to struggle with the anger. I'm not sure what type of help you are seeking, so I don't have advice, but do hope you find the answers you need to see you both through this difficult time. Will be praying for you.