Mediation in the probate court system. Do you have experience with this? What can you tell us about it?

I am mom and dad's guardian/conservator. I set limits and boundaries mom doesn't like, and she is mad. She's perceived things that aren't true, and imagines things that aren't happening. She thinks she doesn't need a guardian anymore, and asked to have me removed. What she really needs is a health care advocate, because she lies to physicians, and she doesn't like that I counter those lies. So I'm being ousted. Soon. What a nightmare. Also, she's abusive to her husband (Advanced Stage Alzheimer's in a NH), so I have to be protective. She is also abusive to me. She is, and always has been to my sister, whom she hit in May, knocking off her glasses. Still, they are granting her request for a new guardian. Just want a mediator since no one else will listen to me, including mom. Feeling frustrated by this system.

Secretsister, can you be more specific? I have some expeirence as a caregiver in court but in order to help you I think the forum will need some additional insight to better help you.