Can my mother pay me or get help to pay me to stay with her and be her caregiver?

Hi Sunshine,
You may want to read this article: https://www.agingcare.com/135476

Also, you should go to your state's Web site and look under aging services. There should be a contact number and they may be able to help you find services.
This question is asked often. It's a huge issue. Good luck with your search.
Carol