I have some cd's which i am saving in case I have to enter a nursing home but not enough for quality care every thing is about lack money I conside ending my life or the lack of one i had a son in a nursing home when it comes to nursing home time--death seams like a good choice
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First, the nursing home idea: Many have changed a lot and really are not the same as they used to be. That isn't to say they all have, but many are very nice and concentrate on person centered care, which means treating you as an individual.
However, since you want to stay in your own home and maybe can for some time, I'd advise you to see an estate attorney or elder attorney who can help you decide your best approach. Your CD's could be spent on in-home care. When you assets are spent down, you would go on Medicaid. Medicaid does provide some in-home care in some places. So, it's not as gloomy as it seems. I truly believe you will feel better if you get help from someone who knows your state laws and how to appropriately help you with your care. Your state Web site has an aging services link, and that may help you somewhat.
Elder law attorneys can be found in the local phonebook, or in at the Web site of the National Association of Elder Law Attorneys (www.naela.org). Many communities also have programs that offer free legal advice and assistance through various volunteer groups. The local Bar Association in each state will have further information on such programs. The American Bar Association can provide referrals to local groups in each state (www.abanet.org).
Good luck, Tinker.
Carol
God bless.
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