My wife cannot walk and she has problems with her vision. I do all the cooking and cleaning, how can we get help?

My friend I am walking in your shoes, But when i was operated
for heart condicion, my wife was there for me. now is my turn to
take care of her.
Its a good feeling doing this. And do not forget GOD repay for all we do for others. Just try and get help from family and friends

My son has the same problem with his wife, except she WON'T cook & WON'T clean, for him there is no choice except to put his foot down. Someday he will I hope. For you however, if your wife CAN'T do those things, then hire a cleaning woman to come in and relieve you a few days week. Otherwise, it's 'for better and worse till death do us part' remember that little part of the ceremony? I know that will come back and bite all of us at some point in time, so you're NOT alone. ha.