Where do I go to recieve financial assistance for caring for my grandmother? I need to know what that program is called.

You may or may not be able to get paid for caring for your grandmother, but she may qualify for some assistance. Try going to her state's website and then type in "aging." Follow the links for local help. There's no one place for national help, so everyone needs to work locally. If your grandmother is on Medicaid, talk with those people. The contact information should be on the forms.
Good luck,
Carol