I take care of a 99 yr old women, I have been with her for 6 years working 24/7 6 days a week, my problem is when her son calls and makes sexual remarks, and lude comments. He is 72, I have mentioned it to his sister who is 69 and she has talked to hime about it, I also have mentioned to his wife and I told her that I find his comments disrespectful, she then tells me hes just blowing hot steam. I tell my lady and she laughs in a condensending way and thinks its funny, today I just blew up after he called and I told my lady that it wasn't funny and that I will report him to the police next time. help what do i do?
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But whether he is a creep or a sick man, why are you on the phone with him? You've reported his behavior to persons who may need to know about it and that should end it for you. If he calls and says, "May I speak to Mother?" give her the phone. If he calls and starts out with inappropriate comments, hang up. Do this consistently. Maybe he likes to get a rise out of you. Remain calm. Do not engage in conversation. Just hang up.
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