My Mominlaw is 95 and now is unable to hold her arms above her head. We use the bench/chair in the tub. It has been a wonderful help. She has been able for the last 3 yrs to take her bath, independantly. I just stay close by, in case. She's very careful .
She's been making up excuses of why she can't wash her hair for over a month now. Even making up stories of how she did it, while we were gone (which she would never do).
Today she has said she just can't lift her arms over her head. Honestly, it's amazing that she has done so well until now! She usually sits up, on her bath chair and uses a rubber hose/sprayer & lets it run on her face, using baby shampoo.
What I would like feedback on is, does anyone know of any portable hairwashing sinks/chairs that would work , in the home? It would be much easier for her to be comfortable. I've never had to deal with this before and am sure some of you have been, for a long time. Please share your experiences and tips with me. I look forward to hearing them! :-)
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Unfortunately, since my last post, she was hospitalized. Now dealing with AFib & heart failure. She is now dependant on me to get dressed, much less get in the tub...haven't tried yet.
We did get her hair washed, because she had to look perfect before we could get her out of the house, to Dr office! I just did the lathering, as she sat in tub/bench. Hope she will still be able to handle sitting there. She's so breathless & weak, having leg pain too. Blessings to you all!
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This is an issue many caregivers have while caring for their loved ones. I have attached some articles that can help you better deal with this elder care issue.
My Parent Won’t Shower or Change Clothes. What Should I Do?
www.agingcare.com/articles/elderly-parents-who-wont-shower-or-change-clothes-133877.htm
and
10 Essentials for Caring for an Elderly Person's Hair
https://www.agingcare.com/articles/elderly-hair-care-and-wash-146025.htm
Hope this helps,
Karie H.
AgingCare.com Team