My mom used to be all about manners and always acted appropriately. Now she is getting angry with people whenever things don't go exactly the way she wanted them to go.
She is getting angry at people who are just doing their jobs because they tell her she doesn't have the papers she needs, or her perscription hasn't been called in, or the office is closed for the day, etc...
If I say anything then she gets upset with me and after it is all over she says I was the one who started it.
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This is a very long way of saying my mom does the same things and I feel terrible around her... but when I think about it, she is scared and when I think more, I realize I really don't have any idea what it feels like to be that old and somewhat helpless, when her freedoms and fun are slowly being lost to her. So now I'm trying to find ways to make her laugh. We try to read uplifting books, not sad ones. I make sure she has some flowers from my garden and something cheerful to wear. Of course she asks if the flower post have been watered and says she would have preferred a different color scarf, but then we laugh.... there it is again. The crabbiness.
My thoughts are with you and I hope you find a way to have a cheerful and fun day today!
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I find that to be a very negative comment and not so true. Not every elderly person gets dimentia and goes through those problems, My Grandma, lived to be 93 and she still had her mind in tact. When my grandmother died it was because of a mistake in a diagnosis . I would like to hear people be more positive and say I will do everything in my power to stay healthy and have more faith and trust in God.Is there a reason why people make that comment?
Whaf you describes looks like symptona of depressoo. and/or the most common, symptons of some type of dementia.I use to see that behaviors with patient with dementia.
The misinformation about dementia lead ua (and aome docfors too)to aays "oh,she or he it is only getting old,and it leads to not detect and treat the disorders.
She needs a good and interessed doctor, a neurologist, to makes blood tests for thiroid diseases, B12 deficts,and other disorders,and she needa to of brain scans to search for brain disorders that can lead to this behavior.
A good and interssted neurologist, that nows that her behaciora are not by ageing , will wearch and find the cause and some type of treatment.
Please, take a loook in the site called Alzheimer reading room.
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