I'm going to court to get this for my mom, but she is fighting me on this. she does not believe she has ALZ/dementia even though her neurologist has said she does. Can someone give me some info on just what this conservatorship involves, I hope I'm doing the right thing. she has found herself a boyfriend at the senior center and he is trying to control her life & turn her against mr. Iam her only child that is alive she has no one else. He doesnt even accept that she has this!
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What I would suggest is going to your state's site and searching Probate Court for "Guidelines for Conservators" which is most likely a downloadable *.pdf file written in plain language which will guide you through the process.
Good Luck!
PS .... and you need to account for everything and every action you make back to the court on an annual basis.
If you are the actual "conservator" my thought would be to go to the court system and voice your opinions and questions about the Co-conservator. You are this persons voice and part of the conservator is to look out for the "very BEST interest" of the person you have been legally appointed to. If the person you care for is of "good sound" mind and can make choices or has ideas and decisions and you feel as if that is what this person really wants...try to do what the person would want... it is their life after all.
It takes an attorney to to the foot work, once a G & C to a ward you have full capability to manage their care & fiances. Once someone has ALZ/DEM thing only continue to progress. My sis & I got a G & C after a con (pseudo husband) took her for ALL her money & dignity. The sooner you act the more ahead you will be. Blessings ~M
Due to my elder age, the court has appointed a co-conservator as my son is indigent.
The Atty. ( co-conservator) had been somewhat helpful, going to Team meetings, etc. but now seems to have reasons not to be available.
I'm still not clear as to what the Conservator responsibilities are when I ask for help/advice.
I will continue ( I do not request pay, I'm just interested in his well being ) as long as I can manage this duty but may need a conservator to carry on alone in the future.
You will definately need an Attorney to assist you with the Conservatorship. It is complicated but if your Mom needs this & you cannot, the court can appoint. someone else.
Best wishes.
Is your mother incompetent in the legal sense? What expert evidence is there about this fact? A person with dementia is not necessarily automatically considered incompetent, especially in the early stages.
I assume you have engaged a lawyer to take you through this process, and he or she can help you with all of the details.