Moms funds are depleteing, she may be discharged from NH and if she returns to AL they will add additional services that will make the cost much more meaning mom will exaust her funds even faster (max 12 months) should I move her in my home. Wife and I are scptical, but since I provide caregving daily anyway. I am sure it would add hardship to my home, but she needs me and her money is running out. Not sure what to do , social workers that I have spoken to so far are not helpful. still trying to get some good advice, unfortunatley each option has its advantages and disadvantages... burned out
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I don't know how old you are, but I find being almost 70 myself, and dealing with a husband who has health issues (not to mention my own) and also spending 18-20/hours a week babysitting my toddler grandchild (actually this is what keeps me going!) I absolutely cannot handle the 24 hour care of my 91 year old mother. We are also facing a decision re Assisted Living (she still lives in her own home). It is an awful decision to have to make and I struggle every day to not feel guilty. I hope this helps you. Remember, her safety and your health are major considerations. Good luck to you.