We live in Florida and Mom likes capri length pants. This is fine most of the year. But in the colder months here - and it does get cold - she likes to wear capris with ankle boots. Or with loafers and socks.
I'm not a fashionable person at all and I'm all for comfort. I'd rather Mom wore a sweatsuit or sweat pants. And she says she doesn't really care how she looks anymore, now that dad has passed away.
But I really dislike the capri pant with boots look. And I know it's terrible but when we go out and she wears them, I'm mostly worried about what others will think - that they'll think I'm not taking care of her by letting her wear a crazy get-up. I even think this when we visit family.
I hate having to find out what she's planning to wear before we go out - or worse, trying to get her to change once she's in the capris. Should I just let her be?
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As a follow-up, we did go buy 3 pair of long pants about a week ago. Today, she came out in the capri jeans and I asked if she wanted to wear her new long jeans. "We bought new jeans?" she asked. So that can explain, it, too. I'm still learning to cope with the forgetfulness from her stroke.
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