mom is receiving calls almost every day claiming she won money but in order for her to receive the so called winnings she must send them money to release the winnings. I and her other kids keep warning her it is a scam. so a few times she tells them to stop calling BUT they NEVER do. then a while later down the line she again starts sending money. she tells me mind my own Business. I just do NOT know what i can do as i tell my Brothers NOT to mail these things for her and etc BUT they will NOT listen and do it any ways. I am the one who is taken care of mom I have 5 brothers and myself. NOBODY seems concerned but me and I just do not know what I can do. I had even talked to her Doctor and when her Doctor told her it was a scam and that she shouldn't be giving her money away she told her Doctor to mind his own Business I had even had a social worker talk with mom and still she will NOT listen. please help it needs to stop and on top of her giving her money away we are receiving phone calls day in and day out on a daily Basis and when I tell them to stop calling they just keep calling back and being rude calling me a bitch and other choice words. I can NOT seem to get any help from any one her Doctor, social worker for the Elderl, and or my Brothers. WHO can help? what can I do? as this has got to stop. this has been going on now for about 5 years. and I try talking with her she tells me mind my own Buisness and tells me that she dosen't tell me what to do with my money. and just continues to give her money away then cry that she never has any money. then when I mention well, stop throwing your money away on the scams and then the crys well I was wishing to win big money to buy a house for the Family. then a bit later she is giving her money away again. PLEASE HELP ME!
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I'm also very upset by a new kind of scam where they call with a threatening message saying they are form the IRS and you must call them back; reportedly if you call back they will try to convince you to write a check to avoid being jailed for back taxes or some such...I'm worried calls like this will give some poor little old lady a heart attack!!
Has being going for 7 months day after day , our son had an anxiety attack the other day . when he saw his father this was three days ago went to westen union and deposit 1000 dollars to send to some other country . we kept telling him that was a scan . I was not sleeping all night to delete the emails of this person but they kept emailing several times at day and I was not able to stop it most of his emails in yahoo are scams !!!
I try to cancel his email account but takes 90 days to close if any body can help me what to do with yahoo emails please I be so grateful.
I was told by his neurologist that I need to get an attorney to get custody and through the attorney I could look for disability He is 72 years old and I am 60 years and can not find a job plus I am always scare what is the next thing he is going to do. I have no idea how to find a lawyer or what steps to take to get some help for disabilty or be able to get more social security
help please and thank you for reading my situation and bless every one who is in this same situation, wish there were some groups so we could all talk
I have no family here so is very lonely and scary
On that website, on the right side, are a list of common scams, and contact numbers for the FBI. Please get in touch with them.
I am very puzzled that your brothers mail her letters sending money to these scammers. What is that about? If they don't believe these are scams, sit them down with the FBI website.
Additionally, the newly formed Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (CFPB) covers financial frauds targeting older Americans. Here is the number for the CFPB Ombudsman's office I have not used them and the CFPB is a newly formed agency so I don't know how helpful they will be but it is worth a try.
Also, call the police. I don't know where you live, but police in smaller towns will respond to this crime with gusto -- check your local police blotter and you will likely see a bunch of these kinds of reports.
I also called the local Western Unions to not allow him to wire money overseas or anywhere else. I reported their numbers to the Do Not Call Registry, and filed complaints with the FTC. It is a full time job keeping the scammers away from him, everyone has told him the same that it is a scam, he says he knows but it doesn't stop him when an envelope slips through.
Good Luck, I live with it everyday, and don't like having to do it this way, but it has helped tremedously with our arguments/fights about it.
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Eventually, after I get her bills settled, I will have to change her accounts so nobody will have her account information.
Alternatively, once you obtain PoA and she currently has no automatic transfers or bills to pay, you can stop ALL debits against the account until she actually needs to get cash from the bank. Allow it for that day only, then put the debit block back on the account.