Mom has been in NH for 2 years now; I live the closest and so visit the most--at least 2/3 a week--and I still have to force myself to go every single time; still feel guilty that I don't go more often, still hate myself when I have to say goodbye to mom and leave on each visit...and now that Christmas #3 in NH is looming, feel dreadfully sad and hopeless.
Does anyone else feel this way?
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It's better to give than receive...Try to look at the visit as something you are doing for Dad, not something for yourself.
I struggle with guilt every day..I hope I can learn from my own advice. LOL
Don't feel bad..