My brother feels it is responsible to only see his mother once every 6 months at a nursing home & to come & go from her and her husbands home where I also live at as he desires. He tramples on my stuff, he accesses the fridge and eats & drinks and I suspect him of theft of some valuable papers missing. He has taken the property deed of my fathers dead mother & step father away as well this property and stated he intends those to pay the nursing home plus states Medicaid is paying for my mother to reside at the nursing home but my father & I both know she has not got Medicaid for out of home care & can only have in-home care with Medicaid at this address not the address of the nursing home. The nursing home has stolen both her checks she received each month and she owes over $10,000 to Discover Credit Card and my brother feels I should stop paying it instead of her paying it, they intend to consume her check on additional insurance for her residency at the nursing home which is $5,400 per month or $64,500 per year room and board. We do not have money nor properties that would cover the cost of such care which did not provide adequate doctor medical support - once a week visitation by the doctor for five minutes costs $45 but Medicare/Tricare refuses to pay any more than $35 a visit being a denied situation for the General Practicing Doctor whom manages another medical care center in a city over 35 miles from here. It is unfair that my brother has placed my fathers dead mothers home up for sale without having cleaned it up or emptied it of our belongings, it has been broken into once already with no loses because some kids saw the burglar and scared him off. I desire a "NO TRESPASS" against my brother to stop him from coming over here. I also seek a Revocation of his POA he has with my father and mother so I continue my caregiver status of securing them appointments and taking them to the doctor when they need it. My father lives at home & I care for him, he has a shunt in his brain & loses touch with reality sometimes so I must watch him closely, my brother has done nothing in support of his medical condition since the shunt placement back in August 2009. I have been the only person feeding them till two years ago when my brother took them away to a lawyer office and they signed a POA and they do not remember doing that and I would have to bring them back to that office for them to recall that moment in time. I cannot stand my brother coming here with his wife whom is also listed as POA for both parents. I am 61yo, my father is 81yo & my mother is 78yo. My mother is to old to be placed on State Medicaid which covers her out of home stay at a nursing home plus both their Social Security & Retirement Checks added together is well above the legal limit that they could have Medicaid out of home. My father has Medicaid capability. My brother was conned into making the decision based on a doctor at a hospital opinion which was suppose to be observation only, Medicare was paying the first 90dys for evaluation & another 100dys lapsed then he not able to come back & forth each week decided to leave my mother in the facility, having not explained to her that it was not me that placed her there she still believes I am responsible for her being there. For that reasoning he has held against their lives I want them to live together without any strings attached like a POA & since I live with them I should be their legal Guardian not my brother whom only claims to be my mother sponsor at the nursing home. The nursing home has lied to me on several occasions stating she has Medicaid & I learned they have a dummy medicaid number which they pull for her to access their pharmacy which is about 200 miles from Prattville in the city of Tuscaloosa and then Medicare is billed for labeling and delivery charges to the Health Care & Rehab Facility, it is not a certified medical facility & if your heart stopped the nurses are not capable to restart it & call for a ambulance 15 minutes away. This has happened once already and my brother feels that is normal, she had a bad yeast infection and they gave her a medication for a bowel movement that stopped her heart accidentally, she later within a week need two pints of blood before she could return and upon returning they did a blood test taking four vials from her needlessly for their records without upholding the hospital records at all. Her original doctor retired and the one that also has another practice 35 miles away started plus a new administrator was appointed with many new nurses and CSA staff but she does not get the care she is suppose to. It is like she is on a welfare role there being in a room with a black female that is semiconscious 24/7 that screams and cures when they wake her up to change the IV Feeding Tube & change her clothes plus make her bed with her still in it. The weekends are the worse, food service to her room because she is bedridden takes 2-4hrs VOLUNTEERS.
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She's belligerent to people trying to help her.
If it were solely mental issues w/o the obvious hostility as well as what I considered an inferred ethnic slur, then I would agree that there might be value in trying to draw her out and recommend help.
But the acid in the engines and the Muslim comments suggested to me there's a real bias if not hostility (and possibly racism) that may or may not be reflective of underlying mental issues. And there's no place on any forum for those kinds of remarks against the President and others of other faiths.
In addition, I'm still not convinced that she isn't just an obnoxious troll.
I think I'll just hope that Betty's brother is as long-suffering and compassionate as he sounds. Then once he's struggled through sorting out his parents no doubt he'll find room in his heart for his sister.
I hope he's not expecting any thanks for it.
"it is a lot of Muslim employees staffed at the facilities they are buying up loads of Real Estate for only Muslim patients."
Sheesh!
"Obama failed when he swore in demolition of vehicles esp pouring acid into their engines to make certain no one could resell parts ..."
"chuff111 you strayed from the question, I expect a answer and you think you might have read the post wrong ..."
"Your skills are super bad man, grow up and don't ask me questions you cannot answer from reading my posts."
I think it's obvious that there are some mental issues here or there's a very long winded troll. Either way, from what I'm reading this is not a post that can be answered or addressed rationally.
This isn’t a request for support but if anyone else wants to stop this diatribe, here’s the URL to contact the admins.
https://www.agingcare.com/contactus.aspx
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(4) Celadrin Dietary Softgels Capsule, two per day.
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(7) INDOMETHACIN 25MG Capsule, one per day.
(8) GABAPENTIN 300MG Capsule, also named Neurontin, three per day.
(9) ROPINIROLE 1MG Tablet, one per day.
(10) TRAMADOL HCL 50MG Tablet, three per day.
(11) METFORMIN 500MG Tablet, one per day.
(12) SIMVASTATIN 20MG Tablet, one per day.
(13) AMLODIPINE 10MG Tablet, one per day."
which pretty much explains the rambling thoughts.
Pam S
1). Do you frequently feel suspicious about the intentions or actions of others? 2). Do you often think that everyone else is wrong and only you are "right?
3). Do you spend a lot of time writing letters that contain a negative connotation to businesses, government agencies, or medical facilities?
The Federal Long Term Care site I am aware of is and it designates Medicaid as the one responsible not THE FED LONG TERM CARE Program which is all it is. It has nothing to do with State setting up deductions for employers on their tax returns they are not having to pay the amount they pay to the federal Long Term Care Program collected by United Healthcare since all states do not have Medicaid and Medicaid is solely responsible. Pan that through the gold screen and see how logical Obama made that to understand, it killed VA Benefits your not talking VA anyways your talking United Healthcare and receiving messages from Medicaid the administrator of that program says that program. Obama isn't a Economist anyways. Since some additional changes you can buy into it, I kid you not I got letters to prove it and tried to complete the questionnaire and it is most difficult, I even received a phone call from them personally to see if I was going to complete the application. You must be a relative of a service member to do that so don't try if your not. NOW CALLED: https://www.ltcfeds.com/ and please DO THIS SEARCH: https://www.ltcfeds.com/ltcWeb/do/assessing_your_needs/RateCalcResults
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Without as much money as was coming in I am unable to pull $1,500 out of my hat to pay the Probate court for a case to Revoke the POA using their letter and signatures, moms money was to pay the Discover Credit Card off fully before she died so I would not be stuck with it since we cannot declare bankruptcy. pitiful I think this situation is and I AM NOT A MESS. I got medical issues myself, having had a vertibrae and four disks removed from my back a couple of years ago limits me to having to have medication the rest of my life until my spine is fully replaced.
For the moving out that has been settled prior to the POA being established, I can live here as long as I desire but once I move the property is absorbed and lost. I have bigger dreams, with EVFCF, but automakers are making it difficult for consumers to make choices having so many recalls nothing they have made is really safe on the highways anymore, even used cars have defects not attended to. What it will do is expand the necessity to make more equipment to change in models that are defective, no more turn key start-ups though and I oppose license tags to lean-on making electronic license tags a better alternative for law enforcement to track as well as know who can drive the vehicle legally, I oppose thieves and loaners of vehicles to friends even if they must drive someone home that is drunk the vehicle don't need to be driven period. My main service is free electricity for being a member of the Foundation which this dream is all about. Obama failed when he swore in demolition of vehicles esp pouring acid into their engines to make certain no one could resell parts, his guidance was not appreciated and opposed every issue that EVFCF was about.
I think that was the Ombudsman office that phoned me so I will return their call as soon as I can. Mom was great this afternoon, but this morning it took her a while to get out of her dreaming state, she did not know who I was and I just walked in before she said - I don't want you to touch me, she was angry at the CNA whom got her out of the bed and sat her in the mobility chair then made her bed, but this afternoon she was in bed when I arrived and ate some strawberries, ice cream, pound cake, chicken and dumplings and I cooked all that for our meal and brought her some. She ate everything, then a few cookies and a Zero Cola which she prefers. I explained to her that I learned it was my brother that went to see her last Sunday with his wife and had emptied out two of her drawers which had food worth $20 I bought last week and he threw it away, not the three friends that also went on Sunday to see her that saw him and her there after I had left. We passed on my way out and I went to talk to then telling then about the lady in the bed next to mom that makes lots of noise when the nurse is changing her and they would have to wait a few minutes.
I am mainly interested in writing this letter of revocation that will be sent certified US Mail to my brothers lawyer for father and mother to sign and terminate the agreement he made with me on their properties, I think I need to include the Realtor whom is trying to sell my fathers mothers land & house on the "No Trespass" warrant so he cannot sell that. The sheriff in that city needs a copy I get from that county court. All this is going to cost a lot of money to the probate and that is what is wrong with State Laws allowing the thieves to manage business as if their business is everything you own esp money matters.
Now days anyone in Alabama can walk into a free clinic, which is administered by the State Health Department of Alabama, and sign up for Medicaid but again it is not Long Term Care and only covers doctor visits with stipulations of the number of visits and your ability to pay, if you are not employed each time you go to the free clinic and need service you are asked to pay a cover charge of $3.00. If you have to be hospitalized the cost to you as a unemployed is only $50 a day. Others that have varied incomes have to pay different amounts. Sorry that you did not know about Medicaid in America. Obama killed the VA Benefits by adding the switch to Medicaid if there was no other insurance for you or if no insurer can be found, the VA does not cover Medicaid payments, nor Medicare or only Tricare in special circumstances if it is deemed necessary and then the payment must go through a different titled insurer such as United Healthcare whom must setup Medicaid not anyone else so OBAMA has lost VA BENEFITS and their alternate is that a service member that has Tricare must go to a military medical facility not the VA whom may assign the service to a off base medical facility not the VA. This includes recovery after a operation if that be your medical concern and in such instances a Healthcare facility that maybe private but the list is shrinking each year as more and more private Healthcare providers are buying up facilities and limiting access plus they have their own security and many times it is a lot of Muslim employees staffed at the facilities they are buying up loads of Real Estate for only Muslim patients.