Mom is 88, in stage 5/6 dementia, started hallucinations, paranoia, accusations, anger, frustration, burning food, extreme driving difficulty, etc. Years back we discussed this time & she agreed with an assisted living home. Love my Mom but she's 1 tough cookie. She now refuses assistance. My son with a big heart, single with a 5 yr old son, wants to care for her full time & run a struggling computer business at home. How or should I convince him a memory care/assisted living home is best for Grandma & him?
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Disable that car immediately. There just comes a time that no matter how our elders react we have to be the adult, make tough decisions and see that they are cared for properly. That does not mean giving up you life, home, health and happiness. That little guy has a lot of years ahead of him and deserves his Dad's full attention!
Start now getting her placed where she will be comfortable and receive the care she needs now and in the future. Best wishes.
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