I have seen an Elder Law attorney and we talked about trusts, thus I would like to find an easy read about this section of the law. Appreciate any suggestions and titles/authors.
My plans are to update my Will, think about using a Trust, get a current Power of Attorney, and anything else my attorney suggests.
And try to convince my parents [92 and 96] that their 10 year old Will is out of date and that they really need to go the Trust route because of their assets, otherwise it will be a huge can of worms if they don't.... they will balk at the cost, I am willing to pay whatever the fee for them, it will be cheaper in the long run.
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I glanced through it, an easy read. My sig/other is reading it cover to cover, and he's trying to learn everything about Trusts, etc.
And I think [fingers crossed] that I have convinced my Dad it is time to either update his Will or put everything into a family Trust.
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My Dad likes to cut out newspaper articles and save them in notebooks... Mom's been after him to weed through those notebooks, dozens upon dozens, but it is slow going as he will re-read that article then talk about it for an hour, then realize he wants to keep the article.
I like having a book with everything in it vs Googling and printing articles, I am old school.... I went into Barnes & Noble's website but there were too many books to choose from.... good heavens, B&N now rents books, that's something new. How I wish the B&N, Borders, and Books a Million stores here didn't close. Most of the really good book stores have closed many of their retail outlets.
Last night I did some very very minor streamlining of "stuff", gosh that is a good feeling of lifting a heavy trash bag. I still have my basement to tackle, way too much "stuff" down there. Why is it so hard to throw away some things? Why do I need my pay stubs from 1970? I know it's fun to look back to see how much I was paid, but how often do I do that. I need to put it into memory and be like my Dad who can tell me how much money he made in 1942 and what was the cost of gasoline, bread and milk :P
I too have thought about my "stuff". One reason why my next big project after gardening season is over is to start streamlining.
Boy, everyone here is way ahead of me! Pam recommended the American Bar - I hadn't even thought of that. VegasLady recommended Nolo; I've used their site before and got good advice. And Flyer's already working on her asset checklist.
I think I better stick to just gardening for awhile and let you ladies take over the legal advice!
GardenArtist, regarding the asset checklist, my attorney gave me over 20 pages to fill out. It's strange I was sitting here in my home office and all of the sudden I was wondering who will get all my personal "stuff" later down the road. I have no children, no nieces or nephews. Something to think about.
I assume you're interested in a Living Trust, not an Irrevocable Trust?
I also have an asset checklist used by my attorney. It will help get all the data in order and save time for your attorney to review when you meet.