I moved mom to ALF a month ago. She was not happy-- mean and moody. (She gets this way every time we have moved her.) The Nurse Practioner said Depakote worked great for this and would calm her too. But she seems to have bad days on it. Worse memory, dead stare, just out of it. I've read Depakote is not right for dementia. Anyone else have experience with it? She is also on Zoloft and tiny tiny dose of Klonopin which seemed ok in rehab to calm her.
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went to neurologist about 2 years ago and he scored very well on the tests...29 out of 30 on one of them so doc did not prescribe meds. about 18 months ago tried aricept but it made him more agitated according to mom. Neurologist then took him off everything. He continued to get agitated and his memory and ability to stay organized getting worse but he still managed. Since mom was afraid we thought they should try independent living facility and we did not let him take his car up there so he stopped driving. Two big changes at one time. he got more agitated and would wander at night so went back to nueroligist two weeks after they in independent living facility and he prescribed very low dose serequil - 12.5 mg in morning and 25 in pm. A week after that he had a blow up with one of their employees - not violent but screaming, cursing, arms flaling, etc. and they said he could not stay in independent facility. mom was still afraid of him so I lived with him at his home for two weeks while trying to find AL or Memory care unit for him.
During that time we would tell him doc said he couldnt drive his car and when he freaked out nurses told us just hide the keys, tell him something, etc. nothing worked and he became fixated on the car. actually called the garage to have the car towed to get keys made. during the two weeks I lived with him there were many periods where you would not know anything was wrong with him and then other times he would go crazy about the car and not being able to drive.
after 2 weeks of living with him tried to move him to AL that he had visited half a dozen times before moving in, and only lasted one night...he wanted to go home but did not want caregiver and kids could not watch him 24/7. He freaked out so bad - would not let people guide him back into assisted living facility, etc. that he ended up going to Geriatric Behavioral facility - psych ward.
That was a week ago and now he is like a zombie. Went from times of total normalcy to a zombie and mostly talks incoherent babble. This has only been a week. Started him on Zyprexa - 5 mg am and pm. I told them after 5 days how badly he us compared to what he usually is. on top of that he started to get a slight electrical issue with his heart so they just switched to depakote but that was only today. I am praying that there is not damage that can't be undone. and tremendously guilty for what has happened to him and how we handled him.
My big question is can alzheimers patients recover at least somewhat from when they get into that mode where they are incoherent? of is there already damage that can't be undone?
Also...,the last 2 weeks I noticed his right eye closed. The NH says they think when he's anxious and does the pursed lip breathing and the hand tremors are worse on the right side,the eye closed. OK....yesterday he was not doing the pl breathing, but the eye was closed. I have a call into the eye doctor to see him. Could be his macular degeneration or my own opinion...a series of TIA's. Maybe even the muscle that controls the eyelid. At 97 and end stage Dementia, on pudding pureed foods and occasionally choking on them...all I ask for at this point is for him to be comfortable. Gosh....it's a hard road...this Dementia road...
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My godmother, who I am POA for and I am her caregiver, is on a medicine for her anxiety. Three years ago, while we were still in living in PA and she was at a very so called "Exclusive Retirement Center", the best in our county they said, her doctor also prescribed Abilify to her. Within days she went completely off the wall!! I was away on vacation to see my daughter in upstate NY and was gone for a week, as normally I would visit my godmother 2-3 times a week. When I got back, she was so confused and disoriented, could not control her urine and was wetting herself and the bed constantly, was not eating. Not anyone of the nurses or aides did anything to help her, never called her doctor and as soon as I saw what was happening to her, I demanded to be given the fact sheet to this drug, and saw she was experiencing every side affect that was listed!!! I took her myself immediately to the ER, where she was admitted and was inpatient for 9 days!!! Her doctor was furious that no one from the Home had contacted her!!
Please, if your gut feeling and senses are telling you something is wrong, listen and contact her doctor ASAP or take her to the ER!!!! Sending my prayers to you!!
Please beware of pschotropic drugs, the dosages and uses. Psychotropic drugs are not supposed to be used to control negative behavior. Many times, these drugs are prescribed for convenience.
I agree 100% with Ferris1. Finding a good geriatric psychiatrist who is willing to spend more than 5 minutes assessing your mom's reaction to the varying drugs and dosages. In addition, many times the general practiioner will prescribe a drug that will cause negative interactions when combined with psychotropic drugs. You may wonder how this could possibly occur. Well, the elderly are treated in pieces with one hand not necessarily knowing what the other hand is or has already done. I implore you to stay abreast of all medication changes, do your own homework, talk to pharmacists in your community, and read the Drug Interation Reference Guide. Above all, ask good questions over and over until you understand.
ps change of environment for dementia patients can be devastating and scary ! They get lonely, depressed and more confused. My doctor told the closest I can have Mom with one face/one place is best.
Good luck and good caring