He is always coming on to people. Help. He seems to be getting worse. He sits by the desk as the night shift comes in and as the 2 to 10 girls leave he is grabbing at them. He is always saying come to my room baby. and stuff that makes me feel uncomfortable, The other day I heard a aid tell him "I am not on the clock so stop". Does that mean its ok as long as we are getting paid?? REALLY?! I have done everything short of calling state. This man IS in his right mind..he goes out and smokes at all hours of the night and it hard to do rounds with him making comments or standing in your way to get down the hall staring you up and down. I am at my wits end...PLEASE HELP!
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I knew a man who began to act very inappropriately sexually. It was mainly verbal, but it was very uncomfortable. Soon he was diagnosed with dementia -- what type I don't know -- and went down very rapidly. Sexual behaviors happen sometimes with the various dementias and other brain problems. If you see it as a sickness, it may make it easier to tolerate. It will just be part of the job.
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It is important that he is being told NO by everyone. It is important that several persons make the complaint to admins and PD. If you have all that, the offending patient will be removed.