My Mom, and youngest sister ,whom is mentally handicapped, live in our childhood home, which is in need of extensive repair, as it is aging also. Mom has no savings and they both receive SSI and Medicare. To make the home safe for them it will take tens of thousands of dollars of repairs and renovations. I don't have the financial means to do these repairs. I am willing to have them come to live with me and sell her home.
My concerns are how would this affect their benifits? Could they still recieve them? Can a portion of them be allocated to help me provide for them? Will I be responsible for all their housing needs? Food? Clothing? One can imagine all the questions going through my head.
I am going to seek professional and legal advise on these matters, but thought I would see if any one may have had a similar situation and/or can widen my perspective more.
I will do whatever I need to to take care of them, but am worried about the financial strain it may put on me in the future.
Any advise or guidance would be appreciated.
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My thoughts are you want to do whatever to position mom to be eligible for Medicaid. She may never need it but if she does 6 years from mom & you have planned towards that, it will mean less work for you then. Is mom getting regular SS or is she getting SSDI? If regular SS, then the $ from the sale house has no effect on her SS monthly check. Mom could place the proceeds some of the proceeds from the sale of the home into a special needs trust for sissy. there was significant change on SNT for 2015 - they can now have 14K a year placed in without any affect on benefits. This to a maximum of 100K. Mom could stretch out house $ over a few years to Sissys trust to build towards the 100K maximum. Sissy is likely to outlive mom so this is a good thing. In turn you can use the $ in the SNT years from now to be able to get things for sissy that Medicaid never will.
For mom, perhaps look into having attorney do a personal care contact between mom & you so mom pays you for your caregiving or a rental agreement so mom pays you for rent. Whichever you need to do this correctly ( taxes, reporting) so that no gifting / transfer penalty issues for Medicaid years & years from now.
Is house in moms name only? then anything done on the house to get it market ready needs to be paid by mom & keep receipts on all. Mom may need to do taxes for this year & you want her to offset the proceeds from the house from expenses on the house. When you are moving mom, be sure to save all receipts or bills that show any repairs or replacement work done on house from years ago too as all can make a difference for house gains for taxes.
As far as timeline here's my suggestion:
- drive around mom ' hood and look for Realtor names on signs. There likely are just afew who have multiple listings in the area. Them google moms address to see what names also have listings. The names that pop up on both lists are the ones you contact to come over to look at the house. They all can put together a lusting agreement with comps book for you. If they are with a MLS group ( most are) this s super easy fir them to do too.
- Take the comp books along with details on mom & Sissy to the law firm. Yiu need their awards letters ( these went out in Dec) and then their 2014 tax statement ( this goes out this month) and then whatever prior legal exists for mom & sissy. All this just provides legal to have a definite benchmark as to $ & Sissy's handicap.
- then after you see legal, then deal with SSA.
Good luck in all thisvasap& in getting your house ready for them