My 99 year old grandpa is giving his money to a lady who works at his Assisted Living home because she has recently been diagnosed with Diabetes and can't afford the medication and pump she needs. My mom and I are trying to prove to him and his family that this is not right but no one believes us. Does anyone know if there is any law that is for this so we can prove to them that this is illegal?
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If your grandfather has the resources and would like to help out this caregiver, I suggest you involve the management of the AL and make his gift to her a one-time thing (rather than ongoing cash). He could, for example, pay her copay on the pump.
While your grandfather may have dementia, it clearly has not stolen his compassion for others.
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Agreeing with everyone else, I know of no care organisation or long term facility that would allow its staff to accept presents of any value, let alone cash, from a resident. It is so obviously open to abuse that it's a clear no-no. But a law against giving your money away to whomever you please? No.