How to cope with sexual assault charges?

I am writing in behalf of my caregiver who had 2 other clients both of which is members of my family. one of which is my daughter. Who IQ'd at 9 years old. She wanted to live with a man that is the same age as me that couldn't take care of himself much less a person like this. To get her way filed VAPO against me then took it to the next step in another county over a month later got a Temporary Sexual Protection Order and notice of Hearing. I have no doubt in my mind that our caregiver never did anything out of the way to any of us. Is there any help of him out there or where do we start looking. Court don't assign PD as this a civil case right now and the Local Legal Aide won't cuz it might end up being turned over as a criminal