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Brendamuller Asked October 2015

I haven't climaxed since I married my 2nd husband 18 yrs ago. Advice?

My female gynecologist has put me on a femring for HRT. That didnt help. She suggested a tool for vaginal floor therepy. That wroked a few times but psycologically i feel like im doing something wrong in my consience. Is this method really successful and do a lot of women use these things for heath reasons. Im just curious if im the only one who feels this way with this proceedure and should i keep trying to overcome the mental feeling like im doing something wrong and its really a medical exercise?

GardenArtist Oct 2015
Brenda, how does this relate to caregiving? Is this in some way affecting your ability to care for someone?

cheribob Oct 2015
Brenda, are you taking any medications? Lack of climax is a very well known side effect of anti-depressants. I can only assume by your question that prior to your current marriage there were no issues? It is not lack of technique on husband's part? My boyfriend is very accepting & is willing to help me in what ever way I need, including vibrator. Is your husband willing to experiment with vibrator? Perhaps he could help you with the "tool"? But like I said, anti-depressants make it impossible for me to climax.

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BarbBrooklyn Oct 2015
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