Is anyone dealing with the smooshing up or cutting it food to death?

Closing our eyes while we take a bite..this is new just started a week ago. I've noticed while we're out at our favorite chicken place and buffet place,chicken sandwich bun and all cut long strip then short strip then in half again.at the buffet meatloaf smashed up lik mash potatoes.when I point it out she says I've always done this .i know she hasn't been doing this for a while.but I don't argue it's not even a big deal.but she's starting to wear more than she eats .is it time for me to cut it up for her or should I just not worry about it.and now the closing of the eyes usually it's when she eats yogurt,or soup.help in spray n wash land